Post - Wedding Rituals
Reception
The
reception is usually held immediately after the wedding. It is an opportunity
for relatives, friends and well-wishers to bless the newly weds, enjoy a
sumptuous meal with them and give them gifts. Vidaai The bride is bid a
tearful farewell by her parents, siblings, relatives and friends. It is a sad
moment as she leaves in a specially decorated car for her new
home.
Ghar nu Laxmi
The bride's
first step into her new home is considered auspicious. She is the "ghar nu
laxmi" or the goddess Laxmi who will bring wealth and good fortune to her home.
The mother-in-law places a vessel, filled to the brim with rice, at the entrance
of the house. The bride must knock the vessel down gently with her right foot,
spilling some of the rice over. The rice is a symbol of wealth and by following
the ritual she conveys her full understanding of her duties responsibilities
towards her new home.